Last week I was greeted by one of my less tactful students by “what have you done this time?!” in response to my leg brace and crutches. So rather than explaining every injury, having gone downhill quite substantially this summer, I’ve started to explain to my new classes that I have a connective tissue disorder that means my joints sometimes come apart and seeing me with crutches isn’t anything unusual. And yes, holding the door for me is always appreciated.
I’m winging it here. I’m not wholly sure how to explain eds to me, or my colleagues, let alone a bunch of teenagers. So far I’ve just answered the questions, but it’s taking so much time! I’ve contemplated leaving a message on each of our class webpages with a short explanation & the ‘it’s not scary and feel free to ask me questions outside of class time’ because they’re kids and most ask out of concern…
One of my younger ones asked what it felt like & can I just dislocate stuff like a snake? I can dislocate certain joints yes, but I’m not going to because it hurts just like it would if you popped a joint out. I’m not actually Elastagirl, she stretches back.
So, any tips on explaining this stuff to bosses, colleagues or kids would be really rather gratefully received as it’s all a bit much right now.